Therapist Says These Are Only 2 Ways To Know If You’re With The Right Person

Knowing if you’re in a relationship with your soulmate can be tough to figure out. Are you with the right person, or is it time to move on? According to therapist and TikToker Flynn Skidmore, there are some questions you can ask yourself when it comes to figuring out if your relationship is allowing you to grow.

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More questions to ask yourself Do I love myself when I am with this person? Do I love the version of me who’s in a committed relationship with this person? Does it help me be a better version of myself with the most important people in my life? Does closeness with this person help me become more alive and more myself? Does closeness with me help THEM become more alive and more themselves? And does that feel like a breath of fresh air for me or is there heaviness like an obligation? Am I creating an expectation for myselt to want to be close with them because they have some traits that resemble what a “healthy” person is supposed to be like? Am I forcing myself to like them? #relationshipadvice #belonging #intimacy #intuition #healingjourney
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The two ways to know if a relationship is right for you

In every relationship, there always comes a point when the couple must decide if they’re willing to commit to each other in the long term. However, if your life has been challenging and you’ve experienced betrayal or hurt in previous relationships, addressing these questions can be a daunting task.

According to Skidmore, we feel confused because we don’t know if feeling resistance is our gut or instinct trying to help us out, or if it’s just another way that our “unconscious relationship wounds” are preventing us from experiencing intimacy and being close with someone who might be a wonderful partner. But asking yourself two questions can make it all a little easier and help put the situation into perspective, figuring out if it’s time to finally settle down and commit or move on from the relationship.