Why Looking For Love Is Only A Waste Of Your Time

Love surrounds us in this world, and it’s a common dream to think of finding that one soulmate that was made just for you. But people that lose faith in finding that one true love have forgotten one important thing: the single person that deserves all your time and attention is, in fact, yourself.

It doesn’t help that Disney and the rest of the society has us out there thinking that if we meet that Prince Charming, everything will somehow be perfect — in fact, it’s known as the Cinderella complex, fittingly enough.

Many women spend so much of their time and energy on finding a boyfriend because they think they need one. As some of us get older, we realize we shouldn’t have placed so much importance on it, but in the moment, we can stay stuck in toxic situations. We stay stuck in relationships where we tolerate abuse, keep having the same fights, and drain all our energy and time.