10 Signs You’re in a Healthy Relationship

There’s no such thing as a perfect relationship, but there is such a thing as a healthy one. No one is happy and elated all the time, no one agrees on everything, everyone argues once in a while. It’s normal, we’re all human, we have opinions and passions and emotions and sometimes they take control over common sense. But what is the line between being opinionated and being rude? How do you know if your partner is looking out for you or actually being controlling? Are you being too emotional and sensitive or are you being manipulated, gaslighted and made to feel crazy? Healthy relationships, in general, are those that make you feel better about yourself and your life and make you happy (not all the time but most of the time at least). Healthy relationships make you want to be your best self. Let’s talk about signs that you’re in a healthy relationship.

1. You Trust Each Other

Trust is the most important thing in any relationship. Without it, you’re doomed. If you find that you trust your partner with your life and you never second guess if they feel the same way about you – congratulations, you’ve got the most important thing covered.

2. You Crack Each Other Up

Making each other laugh is also a great sign of a healthy relationship. If you have a similar sense of humor and tons of inside jokes and you just crack up at the same things – it’s a really good sign. What’s even better is knowing how to laugh at silly disagreements or mistakes you might’ve made instead of getting angry with each other.

3. You Feel Free To Share Opinions

You don’t worry about what you have to say and don’t think twice before sharing your opinions because you know they will understand and won’t judge you. You also don’t have to pick your words carefully because you have nothing bad to say and even if you phrase something wrong they’ll know what you meant.

4. An Arguments Isn’t The End Of The World

You can’t agree on everything, so it’s normal to argue. But the important distinction is that your arguments don’t last ages and rarely blow out of proportion because you’re both willing to listen and take a step back and see that there’s a possibility the other one might be right. And possibly most importantly you know that every fight doesn’t mean that it’s the end of the relationship, you recognize that this is just disagreement and these things happen