10 Crucial Rules for Dating Your Friend’s Ex

A lot of people think it’s the ultimate betrayal of girl code if you date a friend’s ex. They believe that it is disrespectful and a sign of being a shady friend.

1. Although this might seem counterintuitive, don’t ask your friend for permission. Although you should be sensitive and make sure that this is not a poor decision, asking for permission can leave you giving up control and your own free will, at the end of the day.

2. If you’re just looking for a hook-up, your friend’s ex might not be the best choice even he does look like a Greek god.

3. Never trash talk your friend, or their ex. You can ask your partner for advice if you’re in a fight with a friend, but don’t make it personal, especially if they ended on bad terms. This is manipulative on your part, and you can never appear to take sides post-break up, even if you’re dating one of the parties.

4. Don’t gossip about it with your friend. Keep your friend’s secrets, and same with your romantic partner. Save it for someone who doesn’t have history with him.