8 Signs Your Friend Is Using You

Do you have a friendship that feels a bit off? We’ve all had that happen to us. At first it seems fine and you’re excited to see each other, only to realize that you only see each other when they need a favor or want you to help them out with something. It can be quite an eye-opening moment and let’s be honest, it hurts. No one likes to feel used. But it’s better to realize that sooner rather than later and cut ties with this person. Take a look at these 8 signs your friend is using you and if it sounds like your friend – act accordingly.

1. They Always Need Something
One of the most obvious ways you can see if your friend is using you is to analyze how often do you see them and is there a reason for that. If they’re only meeting you when it’s convenient to them, and they require help, or a favor from you – that’s a red flag. Sometimes it’s not that obvious at first. They might just meet with you to hang out but inevitably the conversation steers in the direction of their problems and then you find yourself offering help (cause you’re a nice person). If this happens every single time – you’re being used.

2. They Never Check In
If you find that 99% of the time it’s you who initiates a conversation and your friend never bothers to check in on you first, chances are they’re not really your friend. Friendship is supposed to be based on mutual respect and care, so if they only care about themselves and their well being and don’t bother to ask how you are – it’s a bad sign.

3. They Snub You Online
This might sound a bit silly and childish but they’re we’re all addicted to social media so it matters. Does your friend always forget to tag you in pictures? Or maybe they never include you in their photos or stories on Instagram. Do they post group photos where they look good but it seems like they chose the one where you look the worst.