6 Ways to Stop Being a Nagging Girlfriend

Let’s get one thing straight right from the start. No one actually wants to be a nagging girlfriend, seriously, that’s just not a thing. We all want to be cool and collected and just have a perfect relationship where our partners just do as we say right away and we don’t have to nag them at all. But the world isn’t a perfect place, and men sure as hell aren’t perfect beings, no matter how much we wish they were. And that, in turn, makes us act a bit weird. But if you’re noticing that you’re becoming that person that constantly nags their partner and you’re thinking “Nah-ah, that’s not me, I don’t want to be this way” here are a few things you might want to take into consideration.

1.Quit Telling Him What To Do

If you find yourself constantly telling your partner what he should and shouldn’t do – stop. We’re pretty sure he’s a grownup and can figure out this world on his own. Whether this is about house chores, food options or going out, it doesn’t really matter. Just leave him be for a while and stop wasting your precious time on that. Instead, focus on yourself and what you’d like to do. You’re not his mother, you don’t actually have to look after him. Let him come to you for advice when he inevitably finds himself in a situation that requires your help.

2. Consider The Tone

This might be a hard pill to swallow, but at some point, we all forget that our partner doesn’t really owe us anything. So if you started nagging him for things, consider just rephrasing what you want and pose it as a polite request instead. You’ll be surprised how much politeness and manners can change his view on the situation, and you’ll still get what you want.